In between two wives, I was a single parent for two years, caring for a small grade-school-age son, as his primary physical custodian, while working as an Assistant United States Attorney. I chose being a parent and a father, than a player and child support-payer. The choice I made was wise and winsome! Not sure who this may help, but the image of a young mother with twins, laying with bottles in their mouths, while she types on a computer reminded me of me back in '84-'86.