NON-DELEGABLE DUTIES
Some duties are non-delegable.
No one can do them, but you, for you. Nor must you expect them to.
Each one is responsible for itself, as it is responsible to itself, first.
Only after you have satisfied your own family 'a needs can you share.
Taking care of one's own family, first, is a non-delegable duty. It requires no defense, means no offense, is plain common sense!